Saturday, March 17, 2007

THANK YOU FOR ALL THE LOVE AND SUPPORT


We have been getting extremely strong support from a huge group of family and friends. Obviously, it’s going to take a long time to come to grips with this tragedy. Your support over the last few days has been and will continue to be one of the pillars that we will build our thoughts on. Thank you so much.

For those who have asked, there will not be a funeral or service. We are asking for donations in lieu of flowers. Becky worked for a company that provided services, programs, and transportation for the handicapped and disabled. She spent the last year and a half creating a senior daycare program and facility which was only the first step of her vision. In creating the senior daycare program, Becky’s ultimate goal was to develop a program that would allow geriatric and pediatric populations to benefit from each other. Her goal was achieved last Wednesday when clients of the child day care and senior day care participated in the opening day of the program. She had a passion for helping people and we wish to continue that tradition. The program has been re-named the Becky Klein Adult Care Program in her honor. There has been a fund established and the following is where you can send donations should you desire:

Services in Motion NFP
c/o Marilyn Lesak
26 W 137 Prestwick Ln.
Winfield, IL. 60188

This fund will allow the center to prosper and hopefully grow. It will also give access for those who are less fortunate and cannot afford to attend. It will “perpetuate” Becky while helping those who were such an important part of her life. It turns what is certainly a tragedy in our lives into a more positive contribution to our well-being while helping those that Becky cherished.

We thank you for your outpouring of love and support.

Marilyn and Jeff
Melanie and Roger

79 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hello. My name is Hafsa Naz Mahmood and I'm a reporter with the Daily Herald. I apologize about what has happened and my prayers are with Rebecca's family. I am working on a story about Rebecca and would love to speak to some family members about the type of person Rebecca is aand just paint a picture for residents and readers. If a family member could please call me at (630) 955-3521 as soon as possible, I would kindly appreciate it. Thanks. Hafsa.

Anonymous said...

My name is Jerry Moore, and I'm the news editor of the Villa Park Argus. I read the story in the Daily Herald today (March 19) that Becky was found dead. On behalf of my staff, please accept our deepest condolences over this tragedy. As difficult as this is to request at this time, I too wish to make contact with someone representing the family for a story we're working on. I'd like to gain some insight into who Becky was as a person. I made a copy of the photograph of Becky on this blog and want to know if it would be OK if I used it in our story. If someone wishes to call me, my direct line is (630) 348-3351. You also can e-mail me at jmoore@libertysuburban.com. I realize that speaking with journalists is the least of your concerns right now, but I wanted to offer you the chance to contribute to the article we are working on regarding this horrible incident. I'm so sorry for what has happened, and any time you could give me would be greatly appreciated. Thank you. Jerry Moore.

Unknown said...

WBBM offers heartfelt condolences. We too ask that friends and family contact us.
Please contact Debra Dale or Mike Krauser at 312-297-7801.

Anonymous said...

Marilyn, Jeff, Melanie, Jackie, Teddie, Penny and all of cousins,

Words cannot express the way anyone feels right now. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers constantly. May you find the strength in family, friends and faith to survive this tragedy.
Love, Jeanie, Rob, Lauren, Danny and Colleen Arnold

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with your family at this time.

Anonymous said...

We are very sorry to learn about the loss of Rebecca Klein.

Please know that we and others all over the area are thinking about you during this very difficult time. We know that the VP police and other law enforcement officials are working diligently to bring the person(s) responsible for this crime to swift justice.

Peace be with you.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your loss. You & your family are in my thoughts & prayers. DW

Anonymous said...

I am truly sorry for your loss. I enjoyed working with Becky. She was a pleasure to be around.

Anonymous said...

To the family and friends of Becky,

Words can not describe the sadness that we feel over the loss of Becky.

Becky had a warm heart and a gentle soul which embraced everyone she came into contact with. She will be deeply missed.

Please know that we are with you all during this time of unbelievable sorrow. Our love and hearts are with you.

J & M

Anonymous said...

Becky was not only a great co-worker but also a great friend. I will cherish the memories I have of her and our times together. My thoughts and prayers are with Becky and her family

Anonymous said...

To Becky's friends and family,

I am so saddened by the news. I worked with Becky for quite a while and she was a good person. She will be missed by all those who knew her and everyone she helped throughout her career and her life.

My thoughts are with you all. I hope you receive all of the love and support you need to help you through this.

SI

Anonymous said...

Im so sorry for the loved-ones of this girl. She looked like a lovely person. However, I find it offensive that the newsmedia are using this blog to try to contact her family for information regarding her death. You vultures have no shame!

Anonymous said...

I can't even imagine what you all must be going through at this time. I am deeply saddened by the development of this case. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.

-Another 32 yr old female Villa Park resident

Anonymous said...

To Becky's family-
I am very sorry for your loss of Becky who was so easy to laugh at things were funny, and had such a warm heart for all!
She was a great person to work with!

AW

Anonymous said...

I haven't seen Becky in years, but I remember her as a fun, genuine person. What's happened is a tremendous tragedy. I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.

Anonymous said...

I am so very sorry for the loss of Becky. I was a friend of hers at Streamwood High School. She was an amazing person, and a wonderful friend. I have nothing but fun thoughts of her. You are in my thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time.

Anonymous said...

We are so terribly sorry and devastated for Rebecca's family and friends. We are friends with Maribeth and Penny and John. We have met Becky and remember what a very pretty and friendly woman that she was. My daughter Kati knew her too and is heartbroken for all of you.
Please accept the heartfelt condolences of Mike, Pati, Rose, Janine (The Alexanders), Gramma and Kati and Aaron Quinn for this devastating loss.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry to hear about this news. Becky was a classmate and friend of mine in elementary and middle school, and I have wonderful memories from that time that we shared at St. John's. My thoughts and condolences are with you.

With sympathy,
KS

Anonymous said...

To the family and friends of Becky,

I am sorry to hear about the loss of Becky. I had the honor of working with Becky for several years, she was a wonderful person with a big heart. Becky was great at what she did and she was able to make so many people who are less fortunate laugh and enjoy life to the fullest. She will be missed. We will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers.

Peace-
CS

Anonymous said...

To the Klein family & friends,
I am deeply saddened by the loss of Becky. I knew Becky throughout high school and college. She was a fun-loving, caring, friendly person. I have many fond memories of her. Becky was nothing but kind and thoughtful of others. Her death is such a terrible loss and tragedy. May the prayers and thoughts of others help support and comfort you during this sorrowful time.
Sincerely,
Tina P

Anonymous said...

Hello,

My name is Rachel and Becky was my grandmother's sisters grandaughter. My grandmother is one of my best friends and her sister is one of my favorite aunts. I cannnot imagine the pain my family is going through now.

Although I did not know Becky very well, I moved from Chicago when I was young, this tradgey has reached far beyond Illinois.

It does not surprise me that people describe Becky say things like she's wonderful, great to be around, hard working, and a good person. These are qualties our whole family has.

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to all of my aunts, uncles, cousins and family friends who have been unwittenly thrust into this terrible ordeal.

I wish you all god speed and may Becky rest in peace.

Anonymous said...

Our thoughts and prayers go out to Becky's family.

Johnson said...

Becky was a very dear person who cared greatly for people. She believed in those around her and loved her family beyond words. I will miss her smile and cheerful spirit. You are in my prayers!!!!

Anonymous said...

To the Klein Family and and Friends,

We didn't know Becky personally, but this story has touched our hearts. Please know that y'all will be in our thoughts and prayers and that we are looking forward to justice for Becky's killer(s).

God Bless all of you.

The Hogans
Cumming, Georgia

Anonymous said...

To Becky's circle of family, and friends:

We are thinking of each of you and share your devastation over the news of Becky's death. We know how much Becky cherished her family and friends, and our hearts go out to you. Losing her in this way is just incomprehensible. Please take care of yourselves and one another.

J&I

Anonymous said...

To the family of Rebecca Klein, I did not know her but she seems like a truly remarkable, selfless person. Reading about her excitement at starting up a program for seniors and children was so touching. God bless you all.

Anonymous said...

Jeff Marilyn Melanie and Roger

Our thoughts and prayer go out to you all during this difficult time. We always remembered Becky as a very loving and caring person. Always a smile on her face and a kind word to say. She will be greatly missed. I know how close all of you were.

Love Joey Tina Brittany and Justin

Anonymous said...

Dear Klein Family,

I woke up to the news of your great loss and I couldnt believe it. What a shock it is. At the time when we have people being killed far away and yet so close to home. My heart goes out to you.

Micky (Shady Oaks)

Anonymous said...

I will miss you
Love Eddie from Shady Oaks

Anonymous said...

To the Klein family,
I am very sorry to hear about Becky you are in my prayers always
God bless you
Jimmy from Shady Oaks

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry for your loss
Your in my thoughts and prayers
Love Corny from Shady Oaks

Anonymous said...

Saying you realize that this is not the best time yet still going forward and asking grieving family members to comment, does not make it okay to ask. And no, it's not okay to ask.

I realize that the media has somehow made it acceptable in today's society to shove cameras in front of people in the midst of their tragedy but it is still far from okay or civilized behavour.

Show some damn respect.

Anonymous said...

I wanted to express how sorry I am for your loss. Although I never knew her, she seemed like such a warm loving person. I hope that whomever did this is brought to justice. I grew up in VP and know that the VP Police are doing all that they can to find out what really happened.

The Klein family will be in my prayers.

31 yr old female Lombard, (formerly of VP)

Anonymous said...

I worked with Becky at North Suburban Clinic over ten years ago. She was a wonderful person, and, being just a few years older than me, always gave me advice just before I went off to college. At the time she always talked about going into a career that would allow her to help disabled people. I am so glad to see how successful she has been. It breaks my heart that she will not be able to do this any longer. I feel my words do very little now. However, as a tribute to her life, I would like to make a donation to a cause related to Becky's work. If a family member is still reading this and would like to post a suggestion, I will continue to read this blog and donate to that particular group. I am so very upset over what has happened; I have never and will never forget what a good person Becky was.

Anonymous said...

Hi, I just want to send my condolences to Becky's family for their loss. We have all lost a great friend, sister and daughter. I wish you strenght and peace during your time of grief. My heart and prayers are with all of the people that where in Becky's life. She will be missed....


WE LOVE YOU BECKY !!!!


L.E.O.

Anonymous said...

My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family. I also knew Becky from Streamwood High School. I hope the person who has caused your family so much pain is brought to justice.

Anonymous said...

Extending our deepest sympathy to your family. We are so sorry for your loss. We love you KG!!

Love,
Cory and Heather Peisel
Atlanta, Ga.

Anonymous said...

I am so very sorry to hear about this tragedy. I went to high school in Streamwood with Becky; and although I didn't know her very well, it still hits me pretty hard. I cannot imagine how you all must feel; my deepest sympathies are with all of Becky's friends and family.

-Mark

Anonymous said...

Becky was a fabulous individual with such a fun-loving spirit. It was always such a pleasure to be around her. She made me laugh and it is that laughter I will hold in my heart.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you family. I'm glad D will be with you soon as well. Becky will be missed but her spirit will always be a part of us.

No one that dynamnic and wonderful could ever fade away.

All our love, SP & Savannah

Anonymous said...

Never have I felt such sorrow for someone that I never knew. I am a neighbor and I have been watching everything go on day to day here since this tragedy. I feel as if I have missed what all of these people have experienced by knowing Becky. As a neighbor it is hard to not know what has happened and to walk the streets. And the feeling of helpless is so overwhelming to know that there may have been something that we could have done to protect someone that has spent so much of her life helping others. This is so sad and I am so sorry for everyone and their loss of future memories of Becky. Hold on to what you have and feel blessed that you have them. I wish there was something that I could do.
My deepest sympathy,
Shellie

Kim said...

To the Klein Family-
I went to Streamwood High with Becky- played on the tennis team with her..I am deeply saddned to learn what has happened to her..

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Deepest Sympathies-
Kim J.

Anonymous said...

I cannot even begin to imagine your sorrow and pain. I hope you can take some comfort in knowing that the thoughts and prayers of many are with you.

Anonymous said...

We're very sorry for your loss and hope for quick and swift justice in this matter.

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Cal said...

It is an honor to be able to donate money in memory of a beautiful lady. Our prayers and thoughts are with her family and friends.

March 21, 2007 4:18 PM

Missy Weimer said...

So sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thought and prayers.

Anonymous said...

I am so saddened about the loss of Becky. She was a kind, caring and fun-loving person. I attended high school and college with her. I have many wonderful memories of times we spent together. She will be missed and never forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Sincerely, Nina G

Anonymous said...

i am so sorry to hear about Becky. i saw the news and i recognized Becky immediately. I am so saddened by this. Melanie...you and your family are in my prayers. take care. Nancy King

Anonymous said...

Although I did not know personally know Becky, my sister Nancy was good friends with Melanie throughout their years at Streamwood High School. I am so sorry for your loss and my prayers are with your family during this difficult time.

Colleen (King) Bergquist

Anonymous said...

Our deepest sympathy goes out to Becky's family. Becky has impacted a lot of lives and she will be missed. Class of '92 will never forget her.

Anonymous said...

Hi,
Since I cannot tell Becky personally how I feel, I would like her loved ones to know my thoughts. I want to tell you that Becky was one of the most creative, sweet, intelligent, and honest people that I have ever met. I want you to know that I admired what Becky did for people in her career and that she was an aspiration for me as far as what I want to do with my life.
Every time I spoke with Becky about her job, she never complained about the environment, the management,the people she worked with, or the pay. She was on of the few people I spoke with in my life who actually thoroughly enjoyed helping people. She took pride in making people happy, and loved it! I have always despised the fact that throughout my life, I've been very selfish, striving to make myself happy. How can you make yourself happy if you don't care about anyone else? Becky made a living pleasing others and what could possibly be more pleasing in life than making another person happy? I truly believe that Becky was at the absolute happiest point she could have been in a lifetime because she did not care about the material things that people truly believe make them happy, but the things in life that truly are happy and beautiful. Seeing another person smile. I would like to tell you, though I'm sure you know, that Becky was a wonderful individual with a sweet heart. She will be blessed in heaven and I want you to know that she is in a better place because she deserves to be, not because she had to be. Knowing Becky has been an honor and a pleasure. Her advice has given me insight as to what I want to be in my life. I pray the you will know that she will forever be as happy as the people she aimed to please in her life, a thousand fold. I also pray for your consolation in knowing that Becky will not only be absolutely adored in heaven, but also by those of us whose lives she has had a great influence on as well. Rebecca will always be remembered by everyone as a wonderful person, and the moments we spent with her will be engrained
within our hearts forever.

All of my condlences and love,
Tyler Kondelik

Anonymous said...

Becky is such an incredible reminder of all the things that are right in this world. I lost touch with Becky after high school, yet know that I was blessed to have her touch my life. I wish her family peace during this time of loss. May you always find joy in your memories of Becky.
-KLH

Anonymous said...

I wish to extend my deepest condolences to Becky's family. I attended grade school with Becky at St. John's and remember her as such a fun-loving person. I have only great memories of Becky and am so saddened by this news. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.

Spinner said...

My heart goes out to Becky's friends and family. I can't believe something so violent and stupid happened two blocks away from my house. I didn't know your cousin, despite the fact that I'm pretty active in the community--although based on the wonderful words everyone's written in her memory, I wish I'd had. If there's anything I can do to help, please feel free to e-mail me: jenni.spinner AT gmail DOT com

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for the loss that you have experenced. While I did not know Becky I have followed the story from the start. I have never written to anyone who has lost a loved one but I am keeping her and you in my thoughts. RW
May the Goddess watch over you.

Anonymous said...

my children were friends of becky;s,they are so saddend by this loss, i see them struggling with the whos and whys of this tragedy,even as their mother i can't comfort them,i wanted you to know they thought of your becky as a joy and inspiration to the world, i can tell by their special sense of loss and concern for her family she was a special woman,i truly hope GOD blesses and comforts all of you and closure comes swiftly,may her precious memories take you thru the days that follow, and the beauty of her being lessen your grief as time passes, sincerly ,a grandmother whos heart goes out to you.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your loss. I knew Becky in high school and also worked with her at NSC. She truly was a wonderful person and I feel very fortunate to have known her. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time.

Jenny

Anonymous said...

Words cannot begin to express how sorry I am for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. I am so deeply saddened and disturbed by this senseless tragedy. I became friends with Becky in college. She was truly a remarkable, caring and genuine person. Always smiling and a complete ray of sunshine to those around her. Even though I haven't talked to her in a few years, she has been and always will be in my heart. I was so proud to hear of all of her accomplishments in her career. Always reaching for the stars. May you someday have peace and comfort in knowing that when you look up to the sky, she will be the brightest star shining down on you.

Vicki

Anonymous said...

Becky was a very important and inspirational person in many peoples lives. I wish she could have been on this Earth with us for many more years, but that was not Gods plan. She did more in her short but extremely important life than any of us will ever even hope to do in ours. May she be ever smiling down on us until we meet again. Never forget she is with us always and now is our guardian angel. We all know Becky can handle being everyones guardian angel. :) She was loved and will be missed until we see her again. May Gods love be with you all.

Anonymous said...

I am so deeply sorry for the loss of Becky,my prayers are with you.
Dee

Anonymous said...

Dear Klein Family,
My deepest sympathies and most heartfelt prayers go out to you at the senseless loss of Becky. I can't imagine the grief you must feel. I pray that while this tragedy inevitably changes you from the inside out, that you will come to find the peace and love of God and be drawn near to Him, that this will not leave you bitter and angry, but just to celebrate that God brought Becky to you and allowed you to love her and be loved by her. That the memories of all the good she has done and the love she has given will always be fresh in your hearts and minds. I pray that justice and truth are brought forth swiftly and that you can find closure and be able to concentrate on all the beautiful memories you have. This tragedy causes us all to pause and think about our lives and if we're doing enough to impact our friends, family and community around us. Are we making a difference like Becky so obviously was. What a blessing to have lived such a life, to see these wonderful things in print....Becky lived a wonderful life....She made a difference....To have those things said about you upon your death, there could be no greater gift.

May God bless you and Keep you, make His face shine upon you, Be gracious and grant you (all of you) peace.

Anonymous said...

Becky (I knew her as Bekki) was one of the first people I met on move in day at ISU. We were neighbors in Manchester Hall and later became roommates. I remember the huge smile she had when we met- so friendly and personable. In fact, I think we all ordered pizza that first night and laughed about who knows what. Her laugh was contagious. To the family- you are in my thoughts during this tragic time. Like most other posters have expressed, I hope memories of her laughter and friendly nature over shadow this difficult time. She was truly a wonderful person...
Rebecca (Glover) Burns, Florida

Anonymous said...

Dear Loved ones, Friends and Co-Workers of Becky,
Please know that our sweet Becky is now a Guardian Angel to us all.

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Becky. I was friends with her in high school and at ISU. I was stunned to see her photo on the news and immediately heartbroken at what has happened to her. I am proud to have known her and of all that she accomplished. I knew she would touch people and make this world a better place. She had a light in her that shined through. My prayers go out to her family.

Kim

TS said...

Happy Birthday

Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday, Bekki! God bless you and your family.
Tina

Anonymous said...

I wanted to send one more note to Becky's family to let you know she's still on our minds and in our hearts. I wish you peace as you continue to work through your loss. Thank you for this space to share our sentiments.

Kat said...

I miss you so much, my sweet friend. I would give anything to talk to you again.

Kat

Anonymous said...

Melanie and Roger..
Roger I am sorry to hear about the loss of your relative so late. I didn't make the connection. Thank you for telling me. Our prayers and thoughts are with you both. Jason and Bailey A.

Anonymous said...

I know it has been a while, but I just wanted you to know that even though some time has slipped by, my thoughts are with you as you continue to deal with this.

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Anonymous said...

I didn't know Becky but I wish that I had. The world needs more people like her and the loss of her life is huge.

My sincere condolences to all of her family and friends.

Rhonda Cherf said...

Becky and I were very close in grade school and had slumber partys every weekend at each others house. We watched the movie Top Gun every week and I will always remember that Melanie took us to see Dirty Dancing for the 1st time - It was so good that I think we went 3 more times that week! We learned the words of the final song very quickly and reinacted that scene for our 8th grade teacher, Mrs. Plowman. We had some great times over the years and although we lost touch by attending different high schools, I always thought of her as my friend. I thought of her today while driving through Villa Park so I thought I would write to her family. I am so sorry for your loss and at this holiday season hope that you remember all the wonderful times celebrated with her. Bless everyone.

Sincerely,
Rhonda Cherf

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Anonymous said...

Happy Birthday, Bekki! You are still in my thoughts. May your family find peace and justice.
Tina

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Anonymous said...

It's hard to believe that last month marked a year that Becky has been gone. I met Becky a couple times but god was she so amazing. Opened arms to me and made the effort to get to know me. It may be a year later, but I can still hear her voice and see that smile of hers. My deepest sympathy to the family, you guys are amazing as well.

Unknown said...

Happy birthday Becky!

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